Once your child is reading independently, you may think they don't need to be read to or that it is more beneficial for them to read on their own. But there are benefits to children reading with you through age 14. Check out my post on the benefits of reading to children.
When you are reading to older children, you want it to be enjoyable and beneficial for both of you. Check out the tips below!
Tips
1. Let them select the book
They will be more interested if they had input and choose a book they are interested in. Let them choose whatever they want - a comic, a graphic novel, a book with commercial characters, etc. It is also a great opportunity for them to choose a book that may be a bit advanced for their reading level, but they are interested in. Most kids can understand what is being read to them a couple of years ahead of what they are able to read themselves.
2. If you can get multiple copies, give them a copy to read as you read aloud
Check your local library, there may be multiple copies across branches, and they can order a copy from another branch to your home branch.
3. Pick a spot where you will both be comfortable
A quiet and comfortable space will make the experience more enjoyable for you both.
4. Ask questions as you are reading
This will give your child an opportunity to process the words and think about what they are reading, which will increase comprehension. You can also discuss alternate endings, discuss what your child would do in a similar situation, turn your child or family/friends into characters in the book, etc. Be creative!
5. Read with inflection
Reading aloud with inflection is a great way for children to pick up the rhythm of reading.
6. Visit the library and bookstores.
They have a huge variety of different books and genres to check out and find what they are interested in. Bookstores are great too because they are often displaying the newest titles and staff picks, so the different displays may help your child find something they love. Pro tip: Visit the bookstore for looking and visit the library to get the book they find for free. Many libraries also have a service where you can request they get a book if there is one your child wants that they do not have. The only downside to getting a new book at the library is that they may have to wait. Oftentimes those new books are popular!
7. Take turns reading
You can read a page, then they read a page. You can read a chapter, then they can read a couple (if the book is not too challenging).
8. Listen to an audiobook
This could be very helpful if your child is not into the idea of you reading to them. It's also a great way to spend a car ride. I recommend still asking questions and discussing the book just like you would if you were reading to them.
9. Have your child write/draw/talk about what you all are reading.
This will give them an opportunity to comprehend what is being read.
10. Have fun!
Your child is more likely to have fun and enjoy reading if you are enjoying it. You want this experience to be a positive one.
Remember Mama, you are doing a great job! You got this!
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